"Then Joseph said to his brothers, "Come close to me." When they had done so, he said, "I am your brother Joseph, the one you sold into Egypt! And now, do not be distressed and do not be angry with yourselves for selling me here, because it was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you. For two years now there has been famine in the land, and for the next five years there will not be plowing and reaping. But God sent me ahead of you to preserve for you a remnant on earth and to save your lives by a great deliverance. So then, it was not you who sent me here, but God. He made me father to Pharaoh, lord of his entire household and ruler of all Egypt." (Genesis 45:4-7)
"Jesus replied, "What is impossible with men is possible with God." (Luke 18:27)
In some of the most challenging times in life, God is still with you. In earlier readings, the story of Joseph is an incredible series of events that takes place in a young Hebrews life and his trust in God carries him into the unimaginable. (Genesis 39:2,5,20-23 &41:16) Hated by his brothers because of a dream that he had being over them, they throw him into a cistern, then sell him to a band of Ishmaelite's. Taken down to Egypt, Joseph is now sold to an Egyptian official name Potiphar. Potiphar's wife find Joseph quite attractive and seduces him, but after Joseph refuses, she falsely accuses him of attacking her. Thrown in prison, with the help of God, Joseph is able to discern dreams. He later ends up discerning a dream from the Pharaoh which eventually gets Joseph out of prison. In each of these situations, those that are next to Joseph can clearly see the Lords hand on his life. By this time the Pharaoh puts Joseph in charge of administrating his kingdom and the land of Egypt. Through all of these weird and challenging situations, Joseph stays close to God and somehow knows that whatever happens in his life, as long as he has God, that's all he ever needs - no matter how dark and discouraging the situation may appear - Joseph trusts in God. Joseph has every reason to return the favor for what his brother did to him. But instead, what happens is one of the most incredible examples of forgiveness. When you are that close to God, you become like God, and you do the same as what God would have done for you and anyone else seeking God for forgiveness.
The example of Joseph shows me the incredible heart of the Father. Jesus is not concerned about who's right or who's wrong, just as long the relationship can be mended, put back together. The Greek word is "Kartartidzo" (to mend) - means for the equipping of the saints (Ephesians 4:12). To mend what was once broken. Only through Jesus can such forgiveness can be possible (Luke 18:27). Even Joseph understands the significance of why this all had to happen. It was for God's Glory that he was eventually sold into Egypt, but later as it all comes together, this all had to happen, to save the lives of many. The lesson here is somebody has to be Jesus, to suffer and to Kartartidzo a relationship. And it might as well be you! At times when forgiveness is the furthest from our heart, somebody has to be Jesus in an impossible situation, and it might as well be you. Be Jesus to someone today.
Thank you Lord for the life examples of our Lord Jesus and the power of forgiveness. May I be all that Jesus can be in me today. Amen.
Richard Waialeale